I'm a little confused by your post - it isn't consistent with your original post. In your first post you said you suffer from a mild inferiority complex, and that this Turkish man makes you feel beautiful and fantastic - but you then said you had a flicker of doubt when he didn't contact you one day. But now you say you trust him 100%?
You sound to me as though you really want to make this relationship work, and while there's nothing wrong in that as such, besides it being very early days - relationships (certainly in the beginning) are not something you need to work at. They certainly shouldn't be! When you start off in a relationship everything should come naturally, and you're both usually so enamoured with each other there's nothing you need to work at!
I've read SO MANY times how women on these sites meet a Turkish man and feel obliged to 'work at it'. Why? Why put EFFORT into a relationship with a man you barely know?! As if we don't have enough going on in our lives without having to 'work at' a relationship with a man we barely know - and who lives 2000 miles away! To me - that is just not fun!
The reason many women do tend to scoff at many of these relationships is that we have seen how frequently so many of them go pear-shaped. I don't know the actual figure, but going by my experience through living in Turkey and reading stories on these sites, newspapers, magazines etc; including having friends in the UK with Turkish partners/husbands, the vast majority of relationships fail. Some last a couple of years - some last 5 or 10 years before the man goes off or the woman throws him out. Some women, maybe through pride or desperation, will stick with the marriage despite his bad treatment of her - or the fact he's hardly ever at home - they'll carry on the pretence of being happily married when, in fact, they're leading separate lives. I would hazard a conservative guess that about 90% of these relationships go tits-up eventually. And that's not great odds.
Of course, some relationships do work, and the couples are very happy together - and you could be in that minority. But with your emotional issues (which you yourself have admitted to) you're already vulnerable and have an extra odd stacked against you. It's perfectly possible that this relationship could take off and you'll both live happily ever after - but it's very, very unlikely.
One of the mistakes that so many women seem to make when they first meet a Turkish man, is that they start planning for the future, and become totally consumed by him - even though they hardly know him. I just don't understand why they do it. And I think they themselves are partly responsible for their future unhappiness - because they've helped engineer it. They think they've fallen in love with this exotic man - sometimes without even meeting him! But for those who meet their man on holiday they only know him in a holiday setting, and of course he's going to be 'happy', 'charming' , 'complimentary' etc etc etc - he's in the same environment that you are - and he's getting paid for it, too.
I firmly believe that almost every single one of these relationships (including mine) would have fizzled out within just a few weeks' had it not been so easy to stay in contact. Computers and mobile phones have a lot to answer for, including sites such as the old EGOTM and Turkish Love where young silly girls and vulnerable older women join up as soon as they've met their askim on holiday - or have been fished off the Internet by a visa-hunter (don't even go down THAT road!) - and while they're waiting to hear from askim they log on to one of the silly Turkish Lurve sites to get their 'fix' of Turkey and to feel closer to their askim, simply by talking about him and belonging to a club of other women who have these askims 2000 miles away.
I certainly couldn't have continued a relationship just by phone, texting, Skype etc and the occasional fortnight trip to go out and visit him 3 or 4 times a year. To me - that is not a relationship - that is a continuing holiday romance. So to even use the word 'relationship' is premature at this stage. Of course, there's nothing wrong in staying in contact, and going out to visit him again, but you shouldn't put your life on hold for those two weeks' months away from now. I can honestly say that had I just kept in contact by phone etc with my partner, it would have gradually fizzled out. I was fortunate in many ways in that I was able to fly out there as often as I wanted and when I wanted - in the beginning I'd sometimes decide to book a flight for the very next day - and I was fortunate enough to be able to live out there (albeit on a to and fro basis) and it was that time we spent together which built the foundations of our relationship. But I never planned for the future in that first year or so - we just had a really good time together and enjoyed being together - and the relationship developed naturally.
I think unless you can spend lots and lots of time with this man it's going to be very difficult for a relationship to develop. How can it develop when you're not together - sharing things? Sharing experiences, doing things together, holding hands, looking into their eyes! (as you rightly point out) seeing their body language, smelling their scent, making love, eating together, laughing together, having long conversations into the night, sleeping together - everything. A relationship cannot progress through snatched conversations on the phone or soppy text messages, or MSN/Skype, they're just communication tools - they're not real life.
I know I've drifted off-topic, slightly, but the point I'm making is that the relationships that do tend to be successful are those ones where the couple spent a long time together, in a proper relationship, in the same country. Yes, they have to get a visa eventually (because by that stage they don't want to be apart) but they're secure in the knowledge that they're getting the visa because they want to be together rather than as a means of being together to see how it pans out and how they get on. Some women get fiance visas' for their askim, knowing full well they'll get married to this man who they barely know that well at all; they've maybe spent just 6 weeks' together - if that - and have spent the rest of it chatting online Or they marry the man in Turkey just to bring him over, all knowing deep down they're not really sure of his motives - and are not really sure of their OWN feelings! They just think they'll 'work at it'. And then they all complain when years down the line they realise he'd been duping them all along.
Honestly, if I were you, and with your emotional issues being so deep-seated, I would keep this man as a happy kind of distraction - someone you can text or call every now and then - and maybe pop over to see him when you have some free time - but I would not make any plans for the future with him - and meanwhile I would go out with all my friends to bars, nughtclubs etc and really, really enjoy myself. That's what you should do.
Hope that's helped.
Strawbs