ruby Tue Jul 19, 2011 5:37 am
Hello Karaboga 1
I have just read your response to my post on this thread:-
'Your post is so accurate, with the exception that she is NOT just the Manager, she is the bloody OWNER.
Ha ha. Whoop whoop. Pathetic childish TL speech. What is the mental age of these members? Maybe 10? Thats why they are so mentally challenged and still wet behind the ears when it comes to relationships with Turks/Kurds aka Askim.'
You know what Karaboga, I USED to be a member of that site too, but I came to the decision that I simply could not belong to such a site where I did not share their ethos and their Moderation Policy is an absolute joke. Talk about two faced. One member can get away with threatening to 'take another member out' and the same member also entitles one of her threads with a most disparaging reference to her father (I would not dream of repeating the word she used), and guess what happened, one of the moderators simply deleted the offensive word. The woman in question then argued how the word did not have the same meaning in the States as it does in the UK even though she is posting on a UK site. Now if you were to use threatening behaviour or offensive language, I can guarantee you this, you will be banned. In fact Karaboga, you will probably be 'warned' for posting on this site.
Of course there are a minority of women on TL who are in normal relationships, Judith was a member of that site for a number of years, and previously EGOT. However, the majority of members on TL are needy, vulnerable, desperate rejects and the advice they receive is very dangerous. For example, how could you ever advise a woman who has met a bloke on the internet to 'follow your heart' dump your kids, travel half way across the world at your own cost and risk meeting a complete stranger? Sounds crazy doesnt it? People with a conscience would never advise any woman to take the type of risk.
I suggest you really have a good read on that site, then make your own mind up. I dont mince my words so as not to upset anyone, but one thing you can be sure about, I would NEVER advise any woman to take the stupid risks that TL offer including the Owner who also took the very same risk. Of course, that was her choice, but to advice other women, strangers on a computer screen is downright irresponsible and I have said it time and time again, one day the advice over there will end in a tragedy. I hope I am proved wrong.
That all said, welcome to this site Karaboga, I hope you stay around and are not intimidated by TL into not posting over here.
Ruby