I live in England and get to see my Turkish guy 4 times a year -this year may be 5 times depending. We are close as close can be with him in Turkey and me here and we make up for it when we're together. I've got no complaints with him - just one - and I want to know if this is a common Turkish tendency.
My guy got jealous when I told him I masturbate when I'm in England.
I mean really jealous. He blew a gasket and said I'm never to do it again as it's disrespectful. I can't understand why he's jealous about it and I want to know if this is a Turkish problem? I tried to tell him I have to masterbate as I get very heated and need relief. I've masturbated all my life (even when I was living with my ex) I enjoy it and now I'm in an exclusive relationship I have to masterbate, if I don't I get migraines so it's even medically necessary as far as I'm concerned.
I shouldn't be justifying this to myself or anyone else and the problem I have got is that I can't lie, it's just not in me. Now every time I talk to my guy (every day without fail) he asks me if I've masterbated and when I tell him I have he sulks and says I'm being disloyal. I think it's stupid to get jealous over this and it's building tension up in our relationship. If he was happy about this he would be perfect but he sulks and gets all moody about it. My question to you is this, is this normal Turkish behaviour? If it is , why?