Hi Maria,
I think you have a very valid point. No-one with a normal, active social life could be bothered to spend all their free time on an Internet forum. They are obviously lacking in more ways than one.
Besides not having the time to do it, I think there's something grossly unhealthy with being obsessed with a particular site or person. My theory is that they concentrate on that one person or site so that they don't have to face up to their real life crap. It's an avoidance technique - albeit a subconscious one.
Take Lindsay Norman, for example. She has been stsalking me for about three years now - what sort of life must SHE have?! She should be living her own - not living a secondhand life through reading about me! Same as Jan Tuncer - she spent weeks of her free time not only copying all my posts - she put them on a disc too! Jesus, I've never even LOOKED at the grotesque Linzee's site (Sirin's thick as thieves best buddy) - I find both of them equally repulsive and repugnant - and have no interest in reading their bitter vemon. They just have terribly miserable lives - and I don't give a damn. I'm not interested in their warped minds. They're both sad misfits in society.
They're disgusting creatures. Liars, vile, despicable, jealous, bitter, twisted - and VERY two-faced. They love watching train crases - while pretending to be 'concerned'. Joke is - it's THEY who have the biggest train wrecks od all!!! But as I said before - it's destraction for them!
The Sirin woman (what an ironic name!) was FURIOUS and ANGRY that the police told her to effectively eff off! She gave the police a headache - she was a persistant pest - who they VERY quickly saw through! Jesus, she even tried to IMPLY to THEM that she was something she wasn't. And they checked her out....ADMIN WORKER. NO qualifications. Tiresome. Deluded. I could have told them all that myself - and I did too!
Stout Sirin only has her PC for company - the Frock goes out doing his own thing most of the time (when they're not watching FREEVIEW - no SKY for meanie tight-fisted Pansy Hubby!) Meanwhile, the morbidly obese Linzee (still obese - but not quite as morbidly obese as before) sits in her grimy drab place up north chomping on cheap ham sandwiches and Lambrusca while staring all glassy-eyed at her PC screen while belting out her frustration on her grubby keyboard.......
Oh, then you've got that weird Abi on TC who seems to be full of anger and pain. You can tell she's a very unhappy woman by the way she's never even tried to crack a joke. That's something she's got in common with the Sirin - they're both slow, boring, write long-winded boring posts, unable to inject any humour into their posts (same as Linzee - she can't be humurous - though she has in the past tried - embarrassingly so - but always fell SO flat..duh!) Oh, and then we have Slow Sunny who is actually a very WET blanket, and slightly dim. Thick if you like. No wit, no knowledge and deadly boring. Oh, and she's advised a woman to get married just so the man can get a visa! That's unbelievable! Of course, strange Ken is an oddball too. One only needs to question what a man of his age (he must be pushing 60) whose never been married; has no children; no assets, not even a car! - and rents little hovels in Turkey to reside in. He hasn't got a work permit (he's retired, anyway) but as he's got nothing in Turkey - I wonder what he's doing bumming around out there for? He's another tight-fisted meanie (mind you - he's feeding himself OK! That extra weight really shows on him) and I think someone should tell Ken that young 20-something Turkish girls who work in hostess clubs for 'AHEM 'gentlemen' are only interested in one thing from him - and he's too mean to cough up the money!
There's something EXTREMELY weird and unsavoury about him. He got bollocked by a Turk for inferring a young Turkish woman was his 'former girlfriend' and so swiftly changed the title under her photograph!! Bit of a daydreamer if you ask me - fantasist - and he's skating on very dangerous ice if he's lying about these women. These women's brothers go ballistic over much less than lies like he tells - and these men are young enough to be his grandson., Young, fit men - a bit like their sisters!
Dirty...old...but man - no! Big fat sleazy grubby coward more like - and mean with it!
Strawbs