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    Maria

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    Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Maria on Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:53 pm

    Copied from match.com



    The Real Signs They're in Love!
    How do you know if they love you so? It’s not in their kiss, says Match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor

    1. Eyes
    First of all, look deeply into their eyes. Notice if their pupils are dilated because if they are, they’re very attracted to you. Sexual desire – like fear – stimulates the sympathetic nervous system, one of the effects of which is wide, opened pupils. It can also relax the muscles around the eyes, giving them a softer “doe-eyed” appearance. Aww.
    Then hold your partner’s gaze for four seconds or more – body-language research has shown that a long “eye meet” is only tolerated when a person feels affectionate towards a partner, otherwise it is perceived as an aggression action.

    2. Hips
    When people are with someone they are fiercely attracted to, they unconsciously shift position so their hips are facing towards them. A US study conducted by David Givens and Timothy Perper revealed that lovers practice “total body synchrony”. Eh? In short, “they pivot or swivel until their shoulders become aligned, their bodies face-to-face…” Hmm, maybe this explains why dancing partners keep falling for each other on Strictly. But it’s more than just facing your lover -- couples in love often mirror each other’s actions, or move in tandem; specifically, they follow each other without question, or do not verbally acknowledge gestures between each other (for example, they could take a sip of your drink without asking, or you’d sit next to them without asking permission).

    3. Hair
    Does it look great? Great! Being in love stimulates people to improve their appearance so a new haircut can be a sign of attraction. Does it look messy? Better! Repeated grooming gestures are another body-language giveaway of attraction. Women will twirl, stroke and play with their hair in the presence of their dream man, as a subconscious, “Please God let me look OK,” message. Men, in contrast, will often raise a hand to flatten their hair around women they adore: not only is it grooming, but it also gives the impression of increased height.

    4. Energy
    “I could have danced all night,” isn’t an exaggeration – people in love DO have more energy than the uninfatuated. Anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher ran brain scans on people who confessed to being “madly in love” and found activity in the limbic system of the brain due to a molecule called phenylethylamine (PEA) which is released when we form an intense emotional bond. This action caused “feelings of elation, exhilaration, and euphoria,” says Fisher. This might explain why people in love never sleep either, preferring to spend all night Googling their beloved.

    5. Trust
    When we enter the “attachment” stage of love – the slightly calmer state we reach after the initial lust and infatuation have receded – increased levels of a hormone called Oxytocin cause us to trust our partner. Oxytocin (also known as the bonding hormone) is released during sexual contact and is responsible for boosting feelings of affection and togetherness, and its effect on trust let us do things like spend the night together and make love. Does your partner take your word for things, let you borrow their car and not triple-check where you go at night? Then they’re in deep, baby. Enjoy!
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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Yohan on Sat Jan 28, 2012 2:49 am

    Very true and interesting read, they do apply to me too Very Happy
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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Turkishheartdrop on Sat Jan 28, 2012 8:08 pm

    4th one ENERGY Maria......does that mean if your man sleeps ever such a lot he hates you or just dont love you?....
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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Maria on Sat Jan 28, 2012 8:10 pm

    Turkishheartdrop wrote:4th one ENERGY Maria......does that mean if your man sleeps ever such a lot he hates you or just dont love you?....



    It could be hes just not that into you! Rolling Eyes

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Philllipa on Mon Jan 30, 2012 1:48 am

    Yohan wrote:Very true and interesting read, they do apply to me too Very Happy

    Really?

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  hayleyvemehmet on Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:01 am

    love is having the tv remote in one hand a hoover in the other Smile
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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  SozzledSally on Mon Jan 30, 2012 4:41 am

    hayleyvemehmet wrote:love is having the tv remote in one hand a hoover in the other Smile

    You mean a hoover attached to his gob? Laughing

    Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes

    deep breathes. deep breathes! tongue

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Pollypecker on Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:59 pm

    hayleyvemehmet wrote:love is having the tv remote in one hand a hoover in the other Smile


    Thats very true! Laughing they do love having the remote glued to the hands even if theyre not watching the tele! cyclops

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  ruby on Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:28 pm

    Does anyone remember the film Love Story starring Ryan O'Neal as Oliver and Ali MacCraw as Jenny Razz One of Jenny's famous quotes were 'love means never having to say you're sorry'

    Rubes version is 'loves means look after number one' tongue

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Admin on Tue Jan 31, 2012 4:47 am

    Hi Ruby,

    I remember that film, it was a tear-jerker! Did you know that the man who wrote that film, based it on a true story? I think he was a teacher or something? More googling!

    Oh, and I don't agree that love means never having to say you're sorry : love means you never do anything bad enough to have to say sorry......

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Admin on Tue Jan 31, 2012 7:40 pm

    Oh, this part is most definitely true!

    4. Energy
    “I could have danced all night,” isn’t an exaggeration – people in love DO have more energy than the uninfatuated. Anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher ran brain scans on people who confessed to being “madly in love” and found activity in the limbic system of the brain due to a molecule called phenylethylamine (PEA) which is released when we form an intense emotional bond. This action caused “feelings of elation, exhilaration, and euphoria,” says Fisher. This might explain why people in love never sleep either, preferring to spend all night Googling their beloved.





    When a person falls in love they have masses of energy, and when they do eventually drift off to sleep (after making love one zillion times and then snuggling up as tightly as possible) they're awake at the crack of dawn full of the joys of Spring! bounce cheers

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    Re: Real signs he loves you!

    Post  Turkishheartdrop on Tue Jan 31, 2012 7:51 pm

    Admin wrote:Oh, this part is most definitely true!

    4. Energy
    “I could have danced all night,” isn’t an exaggeration – people in love DO have more energy than the uninfatuated. Anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher ran brain scans on people who confessed to being “madly in love” and found activity in the limbic system of the brain due to a molecule called phenylethylamine (PEA) which is released when we form an intense emotional bond. This action caused “feelings of elation, exhilaration, and euphoria,” says Fisher. This might explain why people in love never sleep either, preferring to spend all night Googling their beloved.





    When a person falls in love they have masses of energy, and when they do eventually drift off to sleep (after making love one zillion times and then snuggling up as tightly as possible) they're awake at the crack of dawn full of the joys of Spring! bounce cheers

    Strawbs



    Sounds like mistrals charlie brown........LOL..........

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