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saus2011
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PostPosted: 11 Nov 2011 12:56 pm Post subject: Efcan Shop Near Sarahs/club Dorado. ugur Sayin (alex) Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post View IP address of poster
Hi Guys,
I wanted to post this so no one falls into this guy’s trap. Luckily enough my sister and I speak and she weren’t afraid to tell me things if she hadn’t god knows where she would have been.
We recently (end of august early September) stopped at the club cetia. (Terrible hotel. much prefer club Julian and next time we go to marmaris this is where we will stay anyways that’s another story) We went as a family my father and his wife. My wife and I with our two kids and my sister and her son.
My sister was in a long term relationship with her partner however things hadn’t been right for a while they both wanted different things she wanted marriage and to have kids he didn’t. Is
Due to us not particularly liking the hotel we were staying in we decided to visit nearby bars hotels etc. for nights out.
Just down from cettia we used to go into club Dorado’s bar as the guys in there were a good laugh ilyas and Yasin real good guys. Now I am a good judge of character and I and my wife didn’t like one of the moonlighting staff there. He called himself Alex. You will find him on Facebook under https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000477824103
He was very shifty looking. I felt initially that it may be a cultural thing etc. but I never felt at ease with this guy. The other staff there ilyas and yasin were genuine guys and I felt completely at ease in their company. Anyway this guy took a fancy to my sister. Who at the time was still in a relationship? He was fully aware of this. He probably thought this girl is on holiday without her partner she’s fair game!
He set about romancing my sister even making things up to try and impress her. Claimed he owned the efcan shop across the road from the Dorado and also that he was the bar manager at the Dorado. Both were not true his family rent the shop and all his brothers share responsibility for the shop. And he was only moonlighting at the Dorado helping out his friend Mustapha. The hotel manager by working the doors dragging in punters etc. I’ve been told next season he has been given a job at the dorado by Mustapha( pleasant guy who hasn’t done anything wrong but I also feel something is not right with him also) so if any of you girls are going there next year watch out for him.
The first play in his game was when she was in his shop he didn’t have any English money to exchange so my sister lent him £50 he did give it back at the end of her holiday
I’ve read the post about Sara’s bar and to be honest it’s not surprised me they seem to be all at it. Vicky was friendly with jello and jello let slip that Alex had a little girl. Which he denied strenuousness.
When the holiday ended they exchanged numbers and Facebook contacts etc. My sister released that the relationship she was in wasn’t going anywhere so she decided to sat down with her partner and explain if they both want different things it won’t work. The eventually split.
My sister has told me nothing happened on holiday with Alex originally they kissed held hands but that was it after she split with her partner she started chatting with him a lot online and decided to visit him in October. She stayed at the Dorado.
Before leaving to visit more groundwork was done by this man he asked my sister to bring some things over for him a laptop some whiskey etc. he sent her the money for these things. Building trust! This was all part of his game. After sending this money he asked to borrow 400 for a week as he needed money to buy stock for his shop. My sister wisely refused.
My sister spent a week in the Dorado and met all of his family (she has already met shaggy one of the brothers.) she went to his mother’s house where they decided to have a BBQ (my sister paid for half) Alex and his mum had an argument. And left my sister and stormed off. When my sister asked him what the argument was about he told her the family are struggling for money and they need £300 for electricity bill or they will be cut off he claimed the mother had asked him to ask my sister to borrow them the money and he told her he wouldn’t ask. He also admitted he did have a little girl to a girl in stoke but he has never seen the kid ever he really wants to have kids etc.
That day he was in a sulk. My sister likens him to being like a big baby he spent the whole day in the shop and went all cold on my sister. She spoke to her brother shaggy who she told the tale about the mother asking for money he said no this is not true the augment was about the shop. They are struggling to pay the rent for the season they need £2000 to cover the rent. (I get the feeling the brother was in on this scam too)
The last 2 days of the holiday were apparently bad and he completely shut my sister out. When she got back she was told he was remorgaging his house to save the shop. He also said he’s a bad man and she shouldn’t speak to him again as he has money troubles.
Once my sister told me all this it became obvious. My sister was more forthcoming to my wife and she told my wife that they had sex and during sex he would apologise after sex and become upset. I read a few similar forums and I warned my sister in no uncertain terms that this man is a con man. It was clear from all the signs. I said look he doesn’t care about you he just wants your money. after sending her to links to forums where people had encountered similar things she started to realise that this many was clever and playing a game to try and con money out of her. Instead of forgetting him she decided she wanted to see if he was trying to con her and to play a game with him.
She spoke to him and said if I can borrow you some money will it help you get out of trouble. She saw his eyes light up on the webcam as she asked him. Yes he said. She cooked up a story about having a meeting with a bank manager she said she was going to borrow 10k and lend him 6k. His eyes lit up and he beamed as he thought he was winning his game. The coldness of the last couple of days stopped. He began pleading his UN dying love for her and telling her she wanted kids etc. She told him that to keep it quiet as her family wouldn’t be happy lending all that money... again in a trust building ploy he said if it’s issue money not importatant he wants to be with her and to have kids. Yet the next day all he could go on about was the money and how he will spend it. Telling her he will have it back for her the end of next season and the shop makes £1000 per day etc. at this point my sister realised he was a con man she didn’t want to believe it but she hated him she hatched another plan which we will get too later on once it’s been fully deployed this will be explained in another post.
The day of the bank meeting came. She told him the appointment was at 2pm there was never a meeting. She was at work. Between 2:30 -3:00 9 missed calls. And a message from Alex brother to call Alex. I had noticed he had been online all day on Facebook waiting for his money I guess!
My sister didn’t want to speak to him but called him and said sorry I got too much credit the bank won’t lend me anymore. That lit the touch paper. f*****g die b***h. Etc..... my sister said to him I think its best we don’t talk to each other again vie let you down and you hate me now. And I think I might be pregnant! He went offline straight away.
He knows he has been played now and there was never any offer of money on the table. My next visit to marmaris I will be on the lookout for him and he may end up on crutches for a while... he thinks my sister is a lair about being pregnant. We will see if he still thinks this after a scan picture is sent after the 5th December scan date. He messaged my sister since sayings kill the baby I don’t want baby. And she’s a lair etc.
I spoke to him and told him he will never see the kid and that he got nothing from this game but my sister will have a baby... looser.
Girls are careful stay clear of this man... as soon as your Turkish boyfriend mentions money. He’s playing you.
saus2011
Joined: 11 Nov 2011
Posts: 1
Location: United Kingdom
PostPosted: 11 Nov 2011 12:56 pm Post subject: Efcan Shop Near Sarahs/club Dorado. ugur Sayin (alex) Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post Delete this post View IP address of poster
Hi Guys,
I wanted to post this so no one falls into this guy’s trap. Luckily enough my sister and I speak and she weren’t afraid to tell me things if she hadn’t god knows where she would have been.
We recently (end of august early September) stopped at the club cetia. (Terrible hotel. much prefer club Julian and next time we go to marmaris this is where we will stay anyways that’s another story) We went as a family my father and his wife. My wife and I with our two kids and my sister and her son.
My sister was in a long term relationship with her partner however things hadn’t been right for a while they both wanted different things she wanted marriage and to have kids he didn’t. Is
Due to us not particularly liking the hotel we were staying in we decided to visit nearby bars hotels etc. for nights out.
Just down from cettia we used to go into club Dorado’s bar as the guys in there were a good laugh ilyas and Yasin real good guys. Now I am a good judge of character and I and my wife didn’t like one of the moonlighting staff there. He called himself Alex. You will find him on Facebook under https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000477824103
He was very shifty looking. I felt initially that it may be a cultural thing etc. but I never felt at ease with this guy. The other staff there ilyas and yasin were genuine guys and I felt completely at ease in their company. Anyway this guy took a fancy to my sister. Who at the time was still in a relationship? He was fully aware of this. He probably thought this girl is on holiday without her partner she’s fair game!
He set about romancing my sister even making things up to try and impress her. Claimed he owned the efcan shop across the road from the Dorado and also that he was the bar manager at the Dorado. Both were not true his family rent the shop and all his brothers share responsibility for the shop. And he was only moonlighting at the Dorado helping out his friend Mustapha. The hotel manager by working the doors dragging in punters etc. I’ve been told next season he has been given a job at the dorado by Mustapha( pleasant guy who hasn’t done anything wrong but I also feel something is not right with him also) so if any of you girls are going there next year watch out for him.
The first play in his game was when she was in his shop he didn’t have any English money to exchange so my sister lent him £50 he did give it back at the end of her holiday
I’ve read the post about Sara’s bar and to be honest it’s not surprised me they seem to be all at it. Vicky was friendly with jello and jello let slip that Alex had a little girl. Which he denied strenuousness.
When the holiday ended they exchanged numbers and Facebook contacts etc. My sister released that the relationship she was in wasn’t going anywhere so she decided to sat down with her partner and explain if they both want different things it won’t work. The eventually split.
My sister has told me nothing happened on holiday with Alex originally they kissed held hands but that was it after she split with her partner she started chatting with him a lot online and decided to visit him in October. She stayed at the Dorado.
Before leaving to visit more groundwork was done by this man he asked my sister to bring some things over for him a laptop some whiskey etc. he sent her the money for these things. Building trust! This was all part of his game. After sending this money he asked to borrow 400 for a week as he needed money to buy stock for his shop. My sister wisely refused.
My sister spent a week in the Dorado and met all of his family (she has already met shaggy one of the brothers.) she went to his mother’s house where they decided to have a BBQ (my sister paid for half) Alex and his mum had an argument. And left my sister and stormed off. When my sister asked him what the argument was about he told her the family are struggling for money and they need £300 for electricity bill or they will be cut off he claimed the mother had asked him to ask my sister to borrow them the money and he told her he wouldn’t ask. He also admitted he did have a little girl to a girl in stoke but he has never seen the kid ever he really wants to have kids etc.
That day he was in a sulk. My sister likens him to being like a big baby he spent the whole day in the shop and went all cold on my sister. She spoke to her brother shaggy who she told the tale about the mother asking for money he said no this is not true the augment was about the shop. They are struggling to pay the rent for the season they need £2000 to cover the rent. (I get the feeling the brother was in on this scam too)
The last 2 days of the holiday were apparently bad and he completely shut my sister out. When she got back she was told he was remorgaging his house to save the shop. He also said he’s a bad man and she shouldn’t speak to him again as he has money troubles.
Once my sister told me all this it became obvious. My sister was more forthcoming to my wife and she told my wife that they had sex and during sex he would apologise after sex and become upset. I read a few similar forums and I warned my sister in no uncertain terms that this man is a con man. It was clear from all the signs. I said look he doesn’t care about you he just wants your money. after sending her to links to forums where people had encountered similar things she started to realise that this many was clever and playing a game to try and con money out of her. Instead of forgetting him she decided she wanted to see if he was trying to con her and to play a game with him.
She spoke to him and said if I can borrow you some money will it help you get out of trouble. She saw his eyes light up on the webcam as she asked him. Yes he said. She cooked up a story about having a meeting with a bank manager she said she was going to borrow 10k and lend him 6k. His eyes lit up and he beamed as he thought he was winning his game. The coldness of the last couple of days stopped. He began pleading his UN dying love for her and telling her she wanted kids etc. She told him that to keep it quiet as her family wouldn’t be happy lending all that money... again in a trust building ploy he said if it’s issue money not importatant he wants to be with her and to have kids. Yet the next day all he could go on about was the money and how he will spend it. Telling her he will have it back for her the end of next season and the shop makes £1000 per day etc. at this point my sister realised he was a con man she didn’t want to believe it but she hated him she hatched another plan which we will get too later on once it’s been fully deployed this will be explained in another post.
The day of the bank meeting came. She told him the appointment was at 2pm there was never a meeting. She was at work. Between 2:30 -3:00 9 missed calls. And a message from Alex brother to call Alex. I had noticed he had been online all day on Facebook waiting for his money I guess!
My sister didn’t want to speak to him but called him and said sorry I got too much credit the bank won’t lend me anymore. That lit the touch paper. f*****g die b***h. Etc..... my sister said to him I think its best we don’t talk to each other again vie let you down and you hate me now. And I think I might be pregnant! He went offline straight away.
He knows he has been played now and there was never any offer of money on the table. My next visit to marmaris I will be on the lookout for him and he may end up on crutches for a while... he thinks my sister is a lair about being pregnant. We will see if he still thinks this after a scan picture is sent after the 5th December scan date. He messaged my sister since sayings kill the baby I don’t want baby. And she’s a lair etc.
I spoke to him and told him he will never see the kid and that he got nothing from this game but my sister will have a baby... looser.
Girls are careful stay clear of this man... as soon as your Turkish boyfriend mentions money. He’s playing you.